Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Silence is gold......

You know what.....I hate people that give unnecessary advise...If I wanted your advise I would have asked....Sometimes silence is a gift....You don't need to fill it every single time of the day.....Use silence to think about your own faults and mistakes, don't criticise others....As MJ once said "Start with the man in the mirror" and if you can't find anything wrong then look again. You probably didn't take a close look.
When I feel the urge to give advise, I bite my tong. People don't always welcome it....If asked I try not to hurt any feelings but I only use the truth...I learnt that white lies don't necessarily make someone happier. Yes, if you tell the truth they will hurt but they will also learn. But don't manipulate that truth in your advantage...you give advise in order to make someone better, not to satisfy your own egotistical needs. Dip your tong in your brain before you use it...words hurt more than actions....If you hit someone the results are clear and they will heal, but if your words hurt you will probably never be aware of the pain you've caused...and believe me that pain takes time to heal.
What I also find somewhat wierd is the confidence of some that state that are great at giving advise. Really people? Really?
Giving advise is like driving a car....You will never be great at it...even if you are a Formula 1 driver. They do get things wrong!
So before you speak, think!

Sunday, January 1, 2012


First I would like to wish to every single one of you a Happy New Year!!May 2012 bring you happiness and health!But most of all may it brings you HOPE for life and the future!

I hope you have the strength and will to achieve what you've wished for. Don't worry if you haven't written any New Years resolutions.....too many promises on paper that most of the time we cannot keep. 

Just make it simple. 

Promise to love, to dream, to achieve and to be happy.
And promise to yourself that no matter how hard thinks will get and if they get hard, you will shed one tear and then you will hold your head high and march. Maybe you'll have to march to the unknown but that's the beauty of life. 

Stop lingering in the Past. Embrace your Present. And welcome the Future.

Whether it will be good or not, is yours to live. So live it to the fullest.

Let your dreams take over you and make sure you believe in them. At some point, whether "now"or "later" they will come true.

Love, live, laugh....Laugh with everything but most of all laugh with yourself.

Make sure to believe in you.